Travel.

Mental health.

Writing.

Bisexuality.

Books.

Travel. Mental health. Writing. Bisexuality. Books.

Alicia Valenski is an American travel writer and the author of The LGBTQ+ Travel Guide with Lonely Planet.

With a journalism degree from Penn State, Alicia cut her teeth as a writer and editor at the Charlotte Observer before rising to the lofty heights of senior editor at theSkimm. Now, she’s navigating life in the Netherlands with her partner, their dog, and a GPS that’s forever confused by the country's endless bike paths.

Alicia writes about the ups, downs, and sideways adventures of being a bisexual, neurodivergent expat, all with a generous dose of honesty, humor, and heart. When she’s not exploring new places or sharing her stories, she’s probably lost in a good book, perfecting her napping skills, or rewatching one of her favorite TV shows for the umpteenth time.

Subscribe to her Substack or follow along at @aliciavalenski for more.

Fresh bylines:

 
 

9 Things You Shouldn't Say To A Bisexual Woman In A Relationship With A Man

Being in a loving, committed relationship with a man doesn’t erase my bisexuality. (Elite Daily)

How to (Actually) Make Friends in a New City

AKA how to not be awkward when meeting new people—either through apps or IRL—and asking them to hang out. (theSkimm)

Couples Therapy Led To My Boyfriend's ADHD Diagnosis & Changed Our Lives

Our therapist leaned forward and asked a question that would transform the trajectory of our relationship: “Have you ever been tested for ADHD?” (Elite Daily)

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